Life ...after 1 year of working ...

Life has changed a full circle ever since we have joined the "IT"
world.Come with me just 2 years back, Our college days, the best days
in anybodys life, SO in mine.We never missed a Friday first day first
show.
There was a hall near by our College , and after watching film there
was a DHABA, we call it NARAM GARAM, that was our hangout place.After that
there was a District Park near my home where we used to go at
evenings.I forgot to mention about a Multiplex, not the one where we
used to watch movie but where we use to Sit for hours, chatting and
chatting. All our days were fundays , no weekdays no weekends.

But now there is something called weekdays and weekends , we get all
kind of mails on friday which keep reminding us that today is friday.
Nothing has changed after some 1 and a half year,Except now we can go
to multiplex , which we used as our chatting place.But truly speaking
sitting there was more fun than going to cinema and coming back.The
joy of first mobile and the happiness of my first bike, I still cant
forget.I used to read the bike advertisements 10 10 times a day
I dont know how to ride the bike when I bought it because I wanted
that or may be because all of my frends were coming on bikes and I was the
one who was there pillon rider.I never used to carry lunch as it was
very old fashioned,but there were some poor chaps who still come
with lunch who never got any chance to eat it because of obvious reasons.
We were famous to finish lunch in 12 seconds.
Imagine the condition of a lunch box when 12 hungry demons will
attack.No matter what is there and no matter whose lunch box
.....There
was no lunch time. Every time was lunch time.
Now just after 1 and a half year I never imagined that life will
change Soo much, We will learn all the atiquettes and wait till lunch time to
go for lunch and will learn how not to attack the lunch boxes.Twice in
a week we will be able to eat Rotis.There will be office hours say 9 to
6, there wont be any bunk,
We cant imagine a life without bunk in college,but those were carefree
days.now we are aacountable for whatever we do. Now there is no hoding
from work. Now we are a employee and not a student anymore but sometimes I think
which life is better, that carefree life without money or this life
with money, till now I am searching for the answer, maybe I am searching
this answer too early but I think somewhere down the line I will have to
ask this question to myself.
Is this is the life I wanted.???I dont know really.
Now we finish our work, have some dinner at any place, here I forgot
to tell u something, Earlier we used to eat only the things we wanted but
now we are forced to eat the thing which is avaliable or not eat
anything at all. and yes after eating watch News for some time and
then Sleep for a new day.This routine will be there for next 30 35 years or
less if I am alive but if it is going to be like this then I think ...
I dont know may be I will think about my college days and will feel
happy for that. May be I will question myself that have I got whatever I
wanted from the life or may be I dont have time for thinking about
anything.
I wont be able to understand that have I got whateverI wanted from
life.
But change is constant. I am searching for a question whose answer I
have not got and whose question is not clear.

Kelshi ki yaaden

office se bhaag bhaag ke ghar pahuche.aur ghar waise hi nahi pahuche .. ghar jaane aur ravishaant ke ghar pahuchne ke beech me hi 2 baar ejaat ka faluda
banaya gaya .ek baar to us atom bomb ke saamne.ab to apni ejjat apni lagti hi nahi ...kyo .. are etni bejjati hone ke baad wo bhi ab sharma gaye hai....haan
to bass me kya bataun kya nahi hua mere sath..atom bomb as usual bata rahi the .... mere
mammi na kal hi dubai se aaye hain u know .. etni buzy hun main
.. kya bataun .. kal unko us jana hai ...bass lag gaye pakane ...ab ek baar ki baat ho to chalta hai uske har baar ka yahi chalta hai...pakka koi na koi
planning chal rahi hai uske yaha america ko udaane ki ... me to soch raha hun police compalin kar ke aa jaun..haan to bass maine ye sms kar dia appu ko ,aur
dekhiye,wo jor jor se bolne lagi amit , tum mujhe abhi sms kyon kar rahe ho .. jo bol rahe ho saamne hi bolo .... maine kaha marwa dala .. ab wo atom bomb
mujhe aise ghure jaa rahi thi jaise mujhe laga ki ab talibaniyon ka agla nisana me hi hunga ..kise tarah ratsa kat gaya.mere jaan me jaan aaye.uske baad mere
ghar pahuche .. aur dekhiye .... ye mat sochiyega ki bejaati ka daur khatam ho gaya tha .. wo to bass shuru hi hua tha .....ab mera dost mil gaya mere ghar
ke paas .. maine to use jaane ke liye pucha nahi tha trip pe .... aur en logon ne puchna shuru kar dia .. tum kyo nahi chal lete hamare sath ... tumko amit
ne aane ke liye nahi bola .... bola to maine tha nahi ..aur mera dost mujhe aise ghur raha tha .. tab mujhe laga ki bhai ab trip se aane ke baad mujhe apne
liye ek doosra ghar bhi dhundhna padega.. usek baad bass waha se nikal gaya .. ab kya kar sakte the..uske baad ham log gaye shopping karne ke liye .. haan
wahi famous shopping.
as usual appu ground floor par khane ki shopping karne lagi aur me aur ravi first floor par kuch "personal" shopping karne chale gaye.ab appu ki shopping
poori ho gaye aur wo kise kaam se upar aaye bass hamare to pairon ke neeche se jameen khisak gaye ..:) .apne mehnat se ki hue shopping ko hamne to bass
edhar udhar fek dia :) hehehehehe.
Ghar pahuche ...raat ko ...... bhukh joron ki lagi hue thi...gas tha nahi .... bread tha safar wala ... thore cheating kari ... raste wala bread saaf kar
gaye ... mere to bhukh mit gaye mujhe laga sab ki bhukh khatam ho gaye hogi par .nahi .. tandoori chicken aur roti order kia gaya .... mujhe to lag raha tha
ki bread mera dinner tha par wo un logon ka starters tha :).bass khana peena hua ..(mera nahi unka).fir phone aaya gaadi wale ka ... me nahi aaunga..mujhe
kahi uar jana hai .. maine socha sab miilke mujhe maar daalenge...ki sala subh jana hai aur gaadi ka kuch ata pata nahi hai. kise tarah se gaadi ka jugaad ho
gaya finally.uske baad aana tha hamare do mehmaano ko ,us ravishaant ke yaha jisko khud bhi apna address nahi pata wo aur logon ko apna address bata raha tha
...address pata nahi kya bataya ... un logon ne koparkhairaane ke 3 chakker jaroor laga liye the,banjara hills , beverly hills , aur pata nahi kaun kaun se hill ke chakker kaat daale the .finally ro peet ke wo log pahuche.fir cute boy ko aana tha
.. wo bhi aise aaram se nahi aaya ... wo bhi pechle mehmaano ke kadamchinhon pe chalta chalta .....koparkhairaane ke teen chakker lagane ke baad pahuch hi
gaya. bass log taiyaar ho gaye the . aachanak ki mere phone me signal aana band hoo gaya ...appu ne ek aisa jaadu manter kia ki signal to full ho gaye par
display ekdam endradhanushi rang jaisa , rang biranga hoo gaya .. aur to aur wo ab ek touch scereen wala phone ban gaya tha :( . (kharcha 1400 rupe :( )
fir pata nahi kyo sabko mere aur ravi ke upar shaq hone laga ki aakhir ye log bajaar se kharid ke kya laaye hain..uske baad to sabka frmae of mind edhar
udhar bhatakne laga..... are bhai jo marji laayen hoo aapko kya karna ... lekin nahi ... logon ko bass yahi matlab tha ki laaye kya hain....me kyon bataun
kuch bhi laya hun ... me to nahi bataunga ... ravi se puchna hai to puch lo....
gaadi aa gaye apne time par ... gaadi me saamaan bhar diya gaya ... sablog ekdam set ho gaye the subh ke 4 baje .. safar ki shuruaaat hue.jana tha etna pata
tha ..kaha jana tha wo bhi pata tha .. kaise jana tha wo kise ko nahi pata tha .....na hi hame naa hi driver ko . driver ne pucha ye kelshi kya cheez hai ..
hamne kaha cheez nahi hai .. jaha jana hai uska naam kelshi hai ..... hame kam hi chinta thi ...kyoki direction dikhane ke lie appu hamare sath jo thi :)
Nikal pade apne safar ki aur ..... aur shuru ho gaya kise ke refreshment ka time ..mujhe aisa laga ki bhai ese kya ho gaya ... aisa lag raha tha daura kind
ka pad gaya tha .its sooo refreshing woooooo ...whoooo.whoaoooo.. ajeeb ajeeb se aawaazen bhi nikal raha tha
bass fir jab gaadi nikali to aise nikli aise nikli ki jaha jana tha usse 30 kilometer aage pahuch gaye.. lekin kehte hain jo hota hai aache ke liye hota hai
... caves dikhe waha...ek dam sunder caves,.. baarish bhi halki halki hoo rahi thi ...bass ham log nikal gaye caves ki aur barish me.kya aaachi aachi photos
aaye hain.. bahut sunder sunder photos kheche waha .fir wapas peeche aaye kelshi ke liye raste me pad gaya ek aur sunder sa waterfall, bass aaw dekha na taaw
.. ghus gaye paani me , matlab waterfall me ... sare chale gaye me bhi chala gaya .. anter bas yahi tha ki sare log apna apna mobile ravi ko de gaye the ..
FYI ravi hamara domestic help nahi hai.hehehehehehehe.bass maine apna mobile kise ko nahi pakdaya .. yaad bhi nahi raha ki mobile bhi jeb me hai .. kaash
yaad hota to 1400 ka fatka bach jata .. 2000 ki trip hue aur 1400 ka mobile repair:(.fir jab naha dho kar wapas aaye to appu apna mobile dhundhe lagi...
mujhe apne peeche ke jeeb bhari bhari lagne lagi aur dil ki dhadkane ki badhne lagi jab aisa mehsoos kia ki apna wala mobile pphone aage ke pocket me tha
aur appu ka peeeche wale pocket me :).maine socha aaj to bass mobile ke sath sath mera bhi apppu kriya karm yahi kar degi. lekin aisa kuch hua nahi .. kyo ..
kyoki maine use bataya hi nahi ki uskka phone leke me paani me ghusa tha :).
fir bass uske baad ham log beer sherr ki bottle , footboll shotboll le kar taiyaar ho gaye ki ab chalenge apne kelshi beach .naam to kise ne suna nahi tha ..
lein ummeden bahut badhi hue thi .. ham logon ne to ab beach beach ka paani pia hai lekin ham apne sath ek delhi wala NRI bhi laye the .. jo beach beach
sunke pagal hue jaa rha tha .. usne socha ki beach hoga miami beach ke tarah ... ladkiyaan hongi edhar udhar naachti hue, beach me sun bath le rahe honge ..
daaru ke daur chal rahe honge ..sochne me kya jata hai ..bass enhi choto choti umeedon ke sath ham log nikle kelshi ke liye ...beach pahuche hi the
ki...bhushhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... bada wala chiiiiiiiiiiii.......baba............. sabse bada ....yuuuukkkkk........aisa ganda beach aisa ganda beach tha ki duniya
ke sabse gande naaale se bhi ganda tha .... ye sab dekh kar durjan singh gana gaane laga ... saare sapne kahi kho gaye ... haaye ham kya se kya ho gaye
:))).. aur kar hi kya sakte the...fir sab ghuur ke gitu ko dekhne lage ... gitu bechari ko kya maloom tha ki kelshi me apun logon ka kela ho jaaega :)).bass
bhari man se kelshi ko aur naseeb ko koste hue log apne room par pachuche ..bhaari bhari man se..puchte puchate logon se ki bhai koi beach hai to batao ..
400 kilometer door se sala nala dekhne nahi aaye:).tabhi pata laga ki paas me hi ek anjaarle beach hai .. sun kar aacha to lag raha tha par darr bhi lag raha
tha darte darte hum log pahuch gaye beach par.beach .. wah kya beach tha .. ye to apna khud ka jaisa beach lag raha tha .. door door tak koi nahi tha .. bas ham
log ....mar mura jaate fir bhi koi dekhne nahi aata ..bass nikal gaye football aur beer ki bottles.. saj gaye shaam, football to khub khele,daudte daudte
pata lag gaya ki ab umar ho chuki hai .. mujhe nahi appu ko :) .bhag hi nahi paa rahi thi moti..hehehehe.mera to bhagne ka kaam nahi tha esliye tension nahi tha
... me khud se golchi ban gaya tha :).aur hamara driver , are wo driver nahi sala fashion photographer lag raha tha jaise usne photo nikale
hain.khatarnaak photos kheeche hain usne.beach me khub masti ki .. fir daur shuru hua truth and dare khelne ka ... sab ne kuch na kuch kaha .. kuch dil se
kuch dimaag se.... ham log jyada ek doosre ko jaante nahi the fir bhi jaane ka mauka mila .. jaise gitu ne bataya ki wo bharath se 10 saal ke baad mile ...
swapnil ko wo 10 saal se jaanti hai .... appu se pucha gaya ki date par sabko kyo le jana chaegi aur kyo nahi ... kyo nahi ka utter tha ... me khata bhaut
hooon .. esliye nahi lee jaagi mujhe .. dobara suniyega .. gaur se suniyega .. me me khata bahut hoon :)))))bola bhi kisne jo raat ko 4 baar dinner karne
ke baad raat me har ek ghante ka alarm lagate hai jo use batata hai ki last chabaye hue 1 ghnata ho chuka hai :))))) heheheheh..ravi ne bataya ki use koi pasand hai .. naam nahi
bataya saale ne .. sab log kelshi ko ek bure sapne ki tarah bhul chuke the ...bura nahi khaufnaak sapna tha wo...ab samaan leke nikal gaye the kelshi se
,samman sath me hi tha .. socha ki anjarle beach to dekh lia ab jaaye to jaayen kaha .. bass fir instantly plan ban gaya raat ko ganpatiphule jaane ka
...gaadi kise ko chalani to thi nahi ,bass baithna hi tha..chalana to driver ko tha .. wo sala kuch jyada bola nahi ... hame halka shaq to hua par.. hamne
kaha kya hi far padta hai .. baad me aisa kuch hua ki sabse jyada fark mujhe hi pada :). raste me ruke dapoli par khana wana khaya ... nahaye dhoye .... aur
fir nikal gaye ganpatiphule ke liye.. kuch door gaye honhge ki driver ne gaadi raat ke 1 baje raste ke ek kone me khadi kar di .. hame laga emergency hogi
..... par nahi wo utra nahi ... seat me aaram karne laga .. maine socha bechara thak gaya hoga , ensaniyat samjh kar use bol dia ki aaram se soo jaao meri
seat par bhi .. socha ki sala 5 mint soo jaega .. bahut gaadi chalaye hai ... me bhi edhar udhar
ghumne laga .. wapas 5 mint me seat ke paas aaya to puri duniya hi badli hue dikhi.. sare bandhujan aapni aapni seaton me soye hue the .. soye hue nahi to
kam se kam lete hue the aur driver bhi apni aur meri seat par aaram farma rahe the ... me darta darta driver ke paas gay aur pucha ki sir chalen .. aise
daanta saale ne jaise ham use nahi wo mujhe laya hoo .. bola aadhe ghnate aur sounga .. maine socha ye soyega .. sare so gaye .. me kaha jaaun .. ab kar hi
kya sakte the ... mil gaya bonut aur use bonut par sar patak patak kar me soo raha tha..... ab fir se darta darta darta gaya main driver ke paas aur pucha ki
sir neend poori ho gaye to chalen .. es baar fir se usne mujhe daara dhamkaar bhaga dia ... ab me kar hi kya sakta tha gaadi to driver ko hi chalani aati thi
.. me night walk par nikal gaya .. :(.. fir me aaya driver ke paas .. fir to usne mujhe aisa ghur ke dekha aisa ghur ke dekha ki bass mera to aaj kaam tamam
hone hi wala tha ... jabardasti driver ko uthaya gaya aur gaadi chalwayi gaye..driver to neend hi main gaadi chalane laga .. peeche walon ko kya maloom tha
.. ki unki jindgi aur maut me bass ek jhapki ka faasla tha .. aur mujhe kuch samjh nahi aa raha tha ki karun to kya karun... me lag gaya driver ko ghurne
jisse kam se kam meri bhayanak shakal dekhkar to use neend naa hi aaye .. akhir jaise taise karke pahuch gaye ganpatiphule raat me 4 baje.. without 1 pair ki
chappal.room mila .. aacha room tha sabko sone ke liye jagah mile ... swapnil aur bharat ko kona mil gaya tha ..:).bass aur kya chaiye tha ... cute boy bol
raha tha raat ko ajeeb ajeeb harkate ho rahi thi uske bagal wale bed pe ... ab cute se hi puchna padega ki hua kya tha .. bass jaise taise subh huye.. bharat
bhaisahab jo raat bhar gaadi me so hi rahe the lag gaye sabko uthane subh ki chalo bhai ghumna bhi hai ... wo bhi un logon ko jin logon ko 48 ghnate me 3
ghante ki neend bhi naseeb nahi hue thi .... koi utha nahi fir bharat bhai khud hi soo gaye :).uske baad ham log ganpati ji ke mandir gaye .. bahut sunder
aarti thi .. mantramugdh hokar ham logon ne aarti suni..fir beach par gaye .. beach par alag hi mahol tha ... cute boy alag alag pose me photo khichwa raha
tha aur durjan singh alag alag poses me photo kheech bhi raha tha .. ham logon ko samjh nahi aa raha tha ki photo kheeche ke liye pose ki kya jarorat hoti
hai .. but FYI.. samjh hi gaye honge .. ham kise photographer ko apne sath nahi laaye the :) heheheheheheheheh..
uske baad ham log nikle waha se ratnagiri ke liye .. ratnagiri me to aisa kuch khaas suna nahi tha bass ek tibba palace ke baare me suna tha ... pahuhe tibba
palace ... palace .. kahe ka palace ...wo ek vaastusangrahalaya tha .. for convent educated chaps .. wo ek ganda sa museum tha.. ab ham log kam se kam
museum dekhne to ratnagiri nahi hi aaye the ... wapas chale gaye bina ghuse hue.. pahcuh gaye ratna giri ke beach par.. fish ki talash me ...fish to nahi
mila haan dam sharach jaror shuru hue .. aur kai filme aaye ..jaise kamsin padosan :),miaine apni adaon se kamsin padosan banne ki nakamyaab kosis jaror ki
thi :).fir aaye ek film ek se mera kya hoga .... aur bharat bhaisahab ne khub mehnat ki... aur gitu ne bhi khub mehnat kari .. aur un logon ne to ek nayi hi
film bana de .. ek se --- mera kya hoga ----. he hehe he .bass khelte khete kaafi time ho chuka tha ... wapas ghar bhi jana tha.. masti ka samay khatam hone
ko taiyaar tha.akhir sab ne fir wapse ka rukh kia .. raste me mast jagah khana peena hua ... aur fir wapse me mast gappe chali. bass 2 din kaise kate .. kuch
andaza nahi hua .... kaash ye 2 din fir se aa jaayen

Mera Gaon mera desh.

Mera Gaon mera desh.

Real India resides in village.If you want to see the real india, the pure india you must visit some village and specially the villages in northern bihar, which are supposed to be most backward in india,cultuarally very rich,economically very poor.U can peacefully stay there without any tension that u might have in city.U wont feel any pollution as there villages are road free,u wont be disturbed by your mobile phones as it wont catch any mobile tower but be careful it may catch nepali tower,there wont be any problem of frequent power cuts for obvious reaons,there wont be power at all.So basically you will be free from the the tensions of living in the city.
After a long time even I got a chance to visit my hometown after a while for some marriage .Its nice to meet so many relatives after a long time.everyone eager to meet you more than you do.its a feel good feeling to be loved by so many people.But as you will talk to all the people in your village you will somehow feel that their thought process and your thought process does not match.The way they think and the way you think does not match and may be they dont how how to talk,may be beause they have never been taught as they are not as lucky as we are, they will speak there mind and in that coarse u may feel offended. I was sitting between 20 or 30 people and suddenly one of them asked my brother ,how much salary u get,I saw the umcomfortness in my brothers face , I mean these kind of things we generally dont discuss in gatherings,that too among people u dont know much.
Another problem which I saw there was of Unemployement.And strangely the relation between umemplyement and education is of a very different kind.I met a lot of people in my village who are well educated,even post graduates who are yet to get job.It isnt that they are not trying , but the fact is that the competition is more intense in villages.lots of graduates spend lot of time in preparing for UPSC thats IAS, and lot of them succeed too but in a country where there is a population of around 130 crore there are 800 or 900 UPSC seats.and may be there will be some 10000 seats in banks PO but see the competition.The job in IT or ITES is also not a great option as the people are not well versed in fluent english and that closes half the doors for coming in corporate sector.So if education cant give you a decent job then just think about the educated guys,They are forced to migrate to other cities like mumbai,delhi,punjab,chennai ,kerala.So u will find all the rickshaw pullers in delhi from bihar.sad but true.go to ludhiyana punjab and u will see all the workers in field, the will be from bihar.go to any slum area in mumbai and more than half will be from bihar.go to kerala whcih is fast becoming a hub for bihari labours, thanks to daily minimun wages, its becoming one of the most hot spots for bihari people. SO we will realize that bihari people dont hide from hard work, its just that the enviornment is not supportive so they are forced to go to other places for having a beter lifestyle.
The problem is not limited to just moving to different cities for earning. The place where I went for marriage was also narrating a horrible story, a father had two daughter who were to be married and the guy was unemployed and due to which was getting scolding from his parents.Enough was enough for that poor guy and he quitly hanged himself from the cieling leaving behind two unmarried daughters and a crying wife. Did he realized that he actually destroyed 4 lives.Was suicide was any alternative by any means no.but sometimes I feel from where he could have got the money for dowry.The marriges are made in heaven is something which is totally false, marriages are made in cash.A engineer 12 lakhs and docter 40 lakhs.A governemt peon 10 lakhs , a private job 3 lakhs.RATE YOURSELF.While coming I almost saw a kidnappping near my house where in a guy came to my neighbour asking for his father and his momin was not there ,The little child was about to open the door,but thankfully my aunt came and the guy just ran away, and got the news later that same incident occured some days ago.where a child was kidnapped in a similar fashion. The problems which I just mentioned were one of the few which everone know and there are So many which we dont know.SO education is not the only solution but we need to make our people industry ready,My dream is to see that day near in future when we will be giving competition to our local tamil naidu and karnatka guys.

Raining..raining...wow its raining

Its raining from almost 2 days and what a feeling.Water water everywhere.Its mumbai's apna monsoon yaar.The atmoshphere is electrifying.The weather is brilliant , you can not ask GOD for anything more.The weather can not be more pleasent than present, the smell of the soil , ahh... its the purest form of smell ever known to mankind.U can see birds roaming here and there just before rain to find a shelter as if god only tell them that its going to rain so better prepared and find your respective places. We can see lush greenry and lots of flowers adding to the beauty of the enviornment.I am happy and the people around me are, the lil childrens who all are going to school with there little little umbrellas , the uncles who are on there regular morning walk, he chai wala bhaiya, the newspaper vendor.Everyone seems to be happy by the drizzle.
I still remeber the rainy season in my home in delhi.Few times it rains allnight and due to that water usually gets clogged near my place and we used to sit in our varandah and make small small ships and see them flowing in the water continuosly in water for hours ,we had a geniunine reason to not to go school. and then get drench in water.

a beginning